Motivation

هل يُجدي نَفعًا أن تَقول لغريق تَغمُره المياه: تَنَفَّس، أنت أقوى مِن الماء، دون أنْ تَمد يديك إليه تُنقِذه؟ كذلك هو الأمر حين يَكون أحدهم في عُمق مُعاناته بينما أنت تُغدق عَليه عبارات التَحفيز الَّتي تَستفز ألمه. إنَّ حاجته للإنصات والتَفَهُّم بصَمت حينها كحاجه الغَريق لليد. ا/فارس المنصوبIs it useful to say to a drowning person who is submerged in water: Breathe, you are stronger than water, without extending your hands to him to save him? This is also the case when someone is in the depths of his suffering while you shower him with motivational phrases that provoke his pain. His need to listen and understand silently at that time is like a drowning person's need for a hand. T/Faris Al-Mansswb